How to be Engaging, Charming, Charismatic and Persuasive
How are you in a group setting? How confident are you at talking in a group?
When you meet new people, do you feel anxious or do you revel at the
chance to dive straight in?
Most of us would say that we still feel at least a little anxiety in a lot of social
situations, especially those that require us to interact with lots of people we
don’t know, or where there is some kind of pressure to perform well.
And those people that don’t feel any anxiety might be more worrying still – it
suggests that you might not truly be thinking about the situation or how you
can optimize the way you’re acting and maximize your opportunities.
And there are SO many situations in life where being able to mix into a
crowd and make the best possible impression is crucial. Being more likeable,
charismatic and charming is crucial if you are at a networking event, or if
you’re given the opportunity to work with a new company. It’s crucial when
you’re going for a job that you really want and it’s crucial when you’re trying
to pick people up in bars.
Trust me when I tell you that there are people for whom this comes easy.
And those people tend to have amazing opportunities handed to them on a
plate. If you’re someone who is instantly impressive and who can
demonstrate their skills and their confidence in any setting, then you’ll find
people instantly taking chances on you and giving you opportunities you
won’t believe.
The good news? This can all be learned.